If you just returned your RSVP card, it's time to get your thinking ... may your love for one another grow stronger. Congratulations on your marriage and best wishes for a happy and fulfilling ...

For a second marriage, I myself do not send a gift, just a “best wishes/congratulations” card. For a third, fourth, etc., I do not send anything or attend. GENTLE READER: Why? Are you protesting?

If you just returned your RSVP card, it's time to get your thinking caps and pens ready. You'll need a wise and witty sentiment for the wedding card. Figuring out what to write in a wedding card ...