Rum Cake. In Jamaica, rum is used for everything from making cocktails to clearing stuffy noses in local homes. So when rum found its way into the cakes, it became a tradition.

The grater cake, however, was a bit of a disappointment. What he had in mind was a white square with a pink dot in the middle. The one we found had two equal layers of pink and white pressed together.

For the Jamaican man this is a little different, and the women below share the, well, interesting ways their partners show them love. Nordia: 42: My husband will bring me grater cake and gizzadas ...