When you're looking for a friend, there are things that matter, and things that don't. Julie Fogliano's I Don't Care is about what's not important ("I really don't care what you think of my hair ...

My Son And His Cousin ... our very best friends who we see every week, or whatever the case may be] in the wedding party. Because I care about you so much, I did always imagine you standing ...

Still, the underlying meaning of their words alarms you. You care about your friend and want to offer reassurance, but you’ve never had thoughts of dying yourself, and you have no idea what to say.

“Going back to 2013, 2014, she’s my friend, she’s transgender ... ‘Well, I love you, I care about you.’” The conversation that pushed Vance and Nelson apart transpired around the ...