DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a ...

My husband believes that when we receive an indivisible gift, both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages.

would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note with one person writing and each individual signing.

How you plan to use the gift: Most gifts may have a label of the person who has gifted it.So, you could mention the gift and ...