Dear Selfless Esteem, I just had a baby and I didn't expect such hardship. I thought I was already parenting in a way because ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, My husband and I have been together now for over 20 years – whilst we get along and are good friends, I feel we simply don’t make time for each other anymore. I can see us ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, Got any tips on how to stay positive when you’re having a bad day? Signed, Sometimes Happy Dear Sometimes Happy, I think everyone can relate to this struggle. Here are some ideas ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, Does the “Let Them” theory contradict the Bible? Doesn’t the Bible say that we should motivate each other to do good works? It also says to make disciples all over the world. In ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, How do I stop feeling so insecure about myself? I’m constantly thinking that everything I do is being watched and judged by others. It’s exhausting. Signed, Insecure Blues Dear ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, How do you heal a broken heart? Signed, Hurting Dear Hurting, I’m so sorry you’re going through a difficult time in your life. I don’t know your specific circumstance, but broken ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, How can someone who is constantly on to new hobbies find peace in the mourning of old hobbies? For example, I used to love to paint but am sometimes saddened that I don’t get as ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, How do you know when it's right to discontinue a friendship? A friend I've known for years is constantly wanting me to take her places.

5. Pray Use the time in the car to talk to God. Worshipping Him will take the focus off your problems and onto His love and care for you. You mentioned the “rude and brainless” drivers you have to ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, It's so hard for me to get out of bed in the morning because I'm not a morning person. Any suggestions? Signed, Too Tired ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm so anxious every day and basically all day. It seems like other people aren't as anxious as me. What's their secret? Signed, ...