This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Becca Kufrin. It has been edited for length and clarity. My love life hasn't been simple. I was the winner of "The Bachelor" in 2018 and said ...

Bachelorette Becca Kufrin: I've always felt loved, but I wish I hadn't pressured myself to get married and have children young. ... Becca Kufrin starred on "The Bachelorette" in 2018.

Former "Bachelorette" Becca Kufrin is smitten with the new fella in her life: 9-month-old son Benson "Benny" Lee Jacobs Kufrin. As the child of two members of Bachelor Nation — Kufrin's husband ...

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...

Becca Kufrin and Thomas Jacobs buy a house. Pic credit: @bkoof/Instagram. Becca Kufrin and Thomas Jacobs have had quite the ride since they met on Bachelor in Paradise Season 7 last summer.

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...

Becca Kufrin doesn’t care if people have an issue with her son’s name. Screengrab from Becca Kufrin's Instagram page A “Bachelorette” star knew people would have an issue with her son’s ...