I do want to honor the daughter and the occasion, but I’m unsure if showing up after such a long period of silence would feel ...

Dear Annie: A couple I’ve been friends with for over 20 years is about to celebrate their daughter’s high school graduation.

Would it be better to attend and show support in person, or should I send a card and gift and leave it at that?

In today's Dear Annie column, Annie offers advice to a reader who no longer speaks to the parents of the child who invited ...