"I simply do not understand the point of changing the way she is to fit someone else's picture-perfect wedding," the toddler's mom wrote on Reddit Erin Clack is a Staff Editor for PEOPLE.

As a Black mom of ... or even snot in her hair (that last one is always fun to discover). So, most of the time, my girl rocks a top knot. Because as much as I love her curly hair, I dislike ...